Now dont go hiding in a dark corner somewhere, you are going to want to read this, believe me !

After being on so many wedding planning pages, I see a lot of brides planning their wedding and this post comes up at least 3 times a day.... WHY IS WEDDING PLANNING SO STRESSFUL?
I feel you, I really do and believe me if I could go back and do things differently when it come to me planning my wedding, Id snap it up right away!

You see, all us woman, men sometimes too, have been dreaming about this day since being little and all the little things mattered, down to what colour your shoes needed to be, the dress being 'The One' and the little mint favours on the tables labled "its mint to be Mr & Mrs....". ​I was one of those brides. Yes they do look amazing in photos, yes its nice to have something you have made personally for your big day, but when it all comes down to it...the stress of getting these little things or making them and you feeling stressed about making them or getting them....JUST ISNT WORTH IT! There are tons of wedding professionals out there who would be more than happy to help you, but if DIY is the only option make it fun!!!

​It is forever being asked and I thought I would just do a write up on why people do ask and why it shouldn't always matter.

Don't  get me wrong, I completely see the advantages of choosing someone who may have worked at your venue because they 'know it well' and many venues have  ​recommended suppliers but sometimes it nice to have a look further afield and heres why.